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One lesson, thought, or resource to living a fuller life every week.
By Suraj Chaudhary On caring about what other people think Read on my website Dear Reader, Suraj here – I can, and I often do, come off as a very rude person. I’ve struggled for a long time to understand why it is that people misunderstand me so often. And by people, I’m referring to the ones I might call friends or those close to me. It’s something that I truly hadn’t been able to make sense of. When thinking about what others think of me, I’ve always considered: “Am I going to have to be...
By Suraj Chaudhary On reference groups Read on my website Dear Reader, Suraj here – How does one determine one’s self-worth? How does one decide how to feel about oneself? One possible way of doing so could be: based on reference groups. Let me explain. As a kid in middle school, I only needed a Nokia 3310 to feel like I was on top of the world. However, with the introduction of newer phones and a new reference group (I had moved to the capital of Nepal), that didn’t feel enough. In the...
By Suraj Chaudhary Impulse Read on my website Dear Reader, Suraj here – All of us have certain quirks. Some of those quirks we are willing to accept, and others we are not. My being impulsive is the latter, or at least it’s something that I haven’t accepted so far. Now, however, it is time that I do so. I am impulsive. It isn’t just one thing that I’m impulsive at, either. I make most of my plans for going out at the last moment. My best friends can attest to that. Most times, I’ve just shown...