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One lesson, thought, or resource to living a fuller life every week.
By Suraj Chaudhary The problem with being a giver Read on my website Dear Reader – I recently came across three labels for how people approach relationships: givers, takers, and matchers. Givers help without keeping score. Takers take without giving back. Matchers sit in the middle, helping when they know they’ll get something in return. I started out as a giver. I’d go out of my way for people even when I knew they couldn’t do anything for me. At work, I’d often pick up other people’s tasks...
By Suraj Chaudhary What the US took from me this year Read on my website “We are all strangers in a strange land, longing for home, but not quite knowing what or where home is. We glimpse it sometimes in our dreams, or as we turn a corner, and suddenly there is a strange, sweet familiarity that vanishes almost as soon as it comes.” ― Madeleine L’Engle, The Rock That Is Higher: Story as Truth Dear Reader – To belong is a feeling I don’t think I’ll ever be able to describe accurately. Not...
By Suraj Chaudhary I Have a Problem Read on my website Dear Reader, I have a problem. I judge people. I don't do that loudly, but it happens fast, almost automatically. Someone walks in, says something, carries themselves a certain way, and I've already formed an opinion. Most of the time I don't even notice I'm doing it. There was a coworker I didn't like. I won't go into the specifics of why. Looking back, I'm not sure I had real reasons. I just didn't vibe with her. And I kept that feeling...